When major events happen out there in the real world, there is often a reaction in our sexual culture.
In the simplest terms, our monkey brain thinks a lot about survival and procreation, and, enjoys a level of dissociation.
When we see something extreme, and it evokes a strong emotion in us, that emotion comes into a state of valid existence. Then, it starts a journey of transmutation. It will travel through you and ultimately manifest somewhere. On the other side, you might be sad, pissed, overjoyed - but you can also process it through your fantasy life. You might really, really want to cum about it.
WHICH IS WHERE I COME IN.
When I look out over this bizarre, dysfunctional society today, I see disenfranchised and worried people that stretch beyond the horizon. Everyone is totally fucking insane, for one reason or another, if you’ve got a beating heart right now.
And so.
I submit that you can lean into processing this moment through a lens of consensual fantasy, before bothering to email your delusional representatives. Your providers actually give a fuck if you are happy.
In 2008, you know what industry didn’t suffer? Sex work. We made bank. We held you. Come back, baby. We will hold you again. (I will hold you hostage, but, same-same.)
I end with a question:
In the last five years, what desires have you formed that you think are directly related to our larger political and global events? What fantasy is this world shaping in you?
Think about it. Let me know.
there are some things i’m just not able to provide…..but You do continue to reside in my heart and brain. i don’t enjoy disappointing anyone….
Mostly being controlled and ultimately made to suffer and undergo tortuous acts, both mental and physical. But then i’ve had these thought for as long as i can remember, at least as far back as puberty.